" Be nice to someone u dislike doesn't mean you are a fake. it means you are mature enough to tolerate your dislike towards them"I like this quote so much! And i admire the one who create this quote! But how many of us can exactly fulfill the message delivered from this quote? To be honest, i can't.
Many of the time in your life, have u been thinking of how matured you are? Frankly, i am not matured enough. I like people who behave matured. Well, people who behave matured, to me, either their actions or thoughts, are prone to be good inspiration in our life. They have more confidence in themselves and are more opinionated. Basically, they don't take things lightly.
I want to be more matured. I hope, i need and i MUST! As years passed, i am turning from adolescence stage to early adult stage. It's time for me to grow matured.=)
Recently, i read about an article on how to be matured and i want to share with u all:
1. Use manners-Try to be courteous without being stuffy or inflexible.
2. Have a genuine good attitude and a goodwill towards others.
3. Have confidence in yourselves and speak from your heart.
4. Think before speak.
5. Be slow to anger.
6. Learn to apologize sincerely for your mistakes, inappropriate words and actions towards others.
7. Listen, slightly nod, and say little things like "oh" and "yes" to let them know you are listening.
8. Be helpful.
9. Talk about mature things to people.
10. Keep an open mind.
11. Learn to control your temper.
12. Accept compliments gracefully.
13. Take criticism gracefully.
14. Don't swear, or at the very least, save the swearing for times that really warrant it.
15. Remember, when you speak, use facial expressions and be funny as usual, but be more serious in conversation.
(Yeah..if you can do all of the above, you are indeed a perfect person with perfect attitude and ideal mind.)
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